Swap directives for curiosity: “What obstacle would disappear with one change?” or “What is the smallest test we can run this week?” Questions empower. They reveal context behind stuck tasks and unlock creativity. Over months, you will notice fewer escalations and more initiative as people feel seen, capable, and safe to experiment.
Praise contributions in public channels and handle corrections privately. This simple split protects dignity, encourages risk-taking, and reduces fear. Teams move faster when appreciation is visible and feedback is specific. One lead shared that after adopting this habit, volunteers for hard problems doubled, and meeting energy shifted from defensive to boldly exploratory.
Summarize purpose, desired outcome, constraints, and next step on a single page. Share before meetings. People arrive aligned, and questions become sharper. The small constraint uncovers missing assumptions and slashes wandering debates. After six weeks, many teams report shorter meetings, cleaner handoffs, and fewer reworks that previously consumed nights and weekends unnecessarily.